No Pain, No Gain

We are not meant to be alone. I don’t care what people say! We all need someone. We struggle with relationships because we are dealing with people. We all have our baggage and that presents in different ways.

There are those who do not trust easily based on the previous experiences. We all are the product of our experiences and all of our experiences are different. So why is there this belief that people should act a certain way and why is there such a thing as normal.

We all search for validation and when we do not get it we are hurt and feel lost. But No Pain, No Gain…right? We have to go through lose to understand when we find happiness. We have to kiss a few toads to fully appreciate prince charming. 

They say that life is what we make it but that doesn’t mean we have to settle for just anything or anyone. I can say that I have loved and lost. What I have realized is that when I love someone they don’t love me. But when I am gone they seem to realize that I was a woman worth their time…but it’s too late. Our time has passed. But the one truism in life is that something that is meant to be….will be.

I am giving it to God and praying that the man he has for me is ready and waiting on me like I am waiting on him. And that are paths are about to cross soon. God knows my heart and He knows my desires. So from here on out…it in his hands…